Matthew A. Sapper Obituary, Death: With deep sorrow and heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Matthew A. Sapper, a cherished son, brother, and friend, who left this world far too soon on June 9, 2025, at the age of 21. A beloved resident of Simi Valley, California, Matthew’s life, though brief, was full of warmth, laughter, and unforgettable memories.
Born in 2004, Matthew was the light of his family’s life from the moment he arrived. He was raised in Simi Valley and attended local schools, where he formed lifelong friendships and earned the respect and admiration of his peers and teachers alike. Known for his kindness, generosity, and quick wit, Matthew had a unique way of making everyone around him feel seen and valued. His infectious smile and gentle nature touched all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Matthew had a strong bond with his family, who were the center of his world. He shared a special relationship with each of his siblings—Sydney, Karl, and Molly—and was known for his protective and loving spirit. Whether he was helping with schoolwork, sharing inside jokes, or simply enjoying time together, Matthew’s role as a big brother was one he embraced with joy and pride. He also had a deep respect and love for his parents, Dana (Howard) and Matthew, who nurtured his passions and supported his dreams.
He enjoyed spending time outdoors, playing video games, listening to music, and exploring new ideas. A curious and creative soul, Matthew had a deep appreciation for art, technology, and nature. He was thoughtful and reflective, often bringing insightful perspectives to conversations and a calming presence to those around him. His close friends describe him as loyal, funny, and someone they could always count on for support and encouragement.
Though he faced challenges in life, Matthew’s strength of spirit and courage were unwavering. He approached each day with a sense of purpose and authenticity, leaving a lasting impression on his community. His passing is an unimaginable loss, not only to those who loved him most but to all who were touched by his gentle heart and generous soul. In honoring his memory, the Sapper family invites all those who knew and loved Matthew to celebrate his life. A memorial service will be held in Simi Valley, with details to be announced. Friends, classmates, teachers, and neighbors are welcome to attend and share their memories of a remarkable young man whose time on earth, though short, was profoundly meaningful.
Matthew A. Sapper leaves behind a legacy of love, compassion, and quiet strength. While the pain of his absence is great, the love he gave and the lives he touched will never be forgotten. He will be forever missed and always remembered. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks for donations to be made in Matthew’s honor to a mental health or youth outreach organization of your choice continuing the light he brought to others even in his absence. Rest in peace, Matthew.